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How to survive infidelity

Yes, treason are, of course, is different, for example, a simple flirtation that goes beyond the limits of decency on vacation, party, in a train or on a business trip, and sometimes the same feeling to the other girl, and now it is much more unpleasant.In both cases, it is not necessary to cut all ties to the root, and to think things through carefully, weigh the pros and cons of the situation and decide whether or not to sort things out, and sometimes it is even better to remain silent, and the problem will go away.

To start really make sure that the fact of treason was.Well, if you found out that's for sure, do not panic and pull yourself together, although it is quite difficult in such a situation, but my head is spinning and thought: "I did everything for him, and he's doing this to me ..." And it is notshould arrange a tantrum, it will not help anyone, but only spoil the situation is even worse.

If it so happened that your man to love another woman, there shouting will not help , and certainly not worth it to put pressure on the pity.Of course, in such a situation you feel aggrieved and humiliated, but if you start to take revenge, then that is all to be sure you will come back here to think with a cool head.

Sometimes it happens that a man changes, but leave the family is going.Then we have to understand what drives him to commit adultery.You might infringe on his male of his, which he fixes his mistress, can you refuse him sex or nedodali love and affection, and maybe you're too in control of his ward and his every move?

What woman do if she changes the beloved?You can either get away from it all, or to put up with the existence that you're not the only woman in his life and learn to live, adapting to his infidelity and his shortcomings.Ask for herself, do you agree to such a life, whether it is worth your suffering?

There are many women who argue in this way, that if a man is consistent, provides them with the desired standard of living, he has a good social status, he can forgive infidelity.Also, if there are children in the family - that's no reason to ruin a family.There are negative and positive ways to adapt to male infidelity.

negative ways to solve this problem looking for women who are constantly grumbling to life and believe that all men goats.The two sides, and men and women are at an impasse, and no one can take a step towards each other.Self-esteem of women are constantly eroded discontent and resentment.

much better way - this is concentrate on your own life and to find other ways to extract joy from life.Learn to be happy without a man, without expecting anything in return.

If your man confidently set out, to leave no better let him go quietly.Requests for mercy, the pressure on him will not help if it were held feelings for you.Besides, if he leaves, and you humiliate, only to lose respect for yourself.But if you feel that he hesitates, then proceed with caution and do not put it in front of a stark choice.In a fit you can decide to change to be like her rival, but it is not the best option.In an attempt to become someone you can turn into a parody.

See also:

  • What if the husband has changed?
  • How to survive the betrayal?

It is important to determine when you can no longer withstand his double life and put this bullet.Sometimes, the separation does not matter who initiated it occurs, has a good result in the end.This can happen for two reasons: keeping their relationship a secret affair with his mistress enveloped novelty appeal, but when a man leaves the family is all lost, and the second reason: he can understand that he misses without you, and this novel was just easyaffair.Parting can favorably affect on you.After some time, you again sigh of relief and continue without him, because in the end, it's just humiliating in relation to itself to build a relationship with a man who spit on you.

but may be such that you betrayed his love and loyalty, you can save the marriage and return to normal relationships after infidelity.Everything is just in your hands!

May 3, 2015 09:05
It's terrible humiliation ... butto live on
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