August
12
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Know thyself // Psychology

The way to achieve through the obstacles of the "I"


«Alien soul - darkness."The familiar expression?Although there is much to learn someone else, and when its not always seem "well-lit".It is known that one of the main obstacles to the achievement of their own is ... the man himself!Just because at the last moment there are thousands of reservations, if only to do an extra step to success.

In words, many people tend to welfare, higher incomes and the implementation of the dreams.That's just their cases differ very much with the words.What to do in order to overcome his own "I"?On this score there are a few recommendations:

  • set specific targets. one thing - to say, "I want my apartment," and quite another - to decide on its acquisition.For example, find out the cost of the secondary or primary market, to calculate the maximum amount possible to delay, pick a convenient deposit program in the bank and begin to save for long-awaited purchase.Yes, some have 10 years 'pinch off' from their earnings tidy sum of money.But on the other hand, if nothing i
    s done, in 10 years the apartment itself does not appear.
  • Find "small pleasures of life." apartment - it is certainly good.But it is not necessary to deny yourself and pleasant moments on the way to global.Ultimately, only the moment is of great importance in human life."Tomorrow," simply can not be ... So we should start to promote themselves to higher results.For example, to find additional sources of income or grow their business.The main thing - to put a "lower bound", which is his own "living wage."And promised himself earned from "top" to allocate a certain amount on something pleasant (the trip sightseeing, skydiving, going to the restaurant, buy clothes from the collection of famous brand).Then there is the incentive to work and not to "pull the strap."

  • constantly look for ways of development. very easy to lie on the couch and watching endless serials, living someone else's life.Or play catch-up in the next, samoutverzhdayas virtual reality.It is much more difficult to always find an excuse for their own development, improving skills, learning new things.Professionalism in any business is very important, so it is constantly striving to expand their knowledge and skills.
  • plan their future.When paper spelled out plans for the next few years, life has become more meaningful.And if you really are looming ahead of worthy goals, then there is the inspiration and enthusiasm.
  • Find good reasons. apartment itself is a soulless object.Buy it - it is an emotional jolt, the performance of something more than just "a roof over its head."It is necessary to consider all the benefits of owning it, to awaken inner emotions.Only with the advent of the senses begins to form an iron will and desire finish the job.

If you carefully look inside yourself, be sure to find your "secrets" that achieve the highest peaks.In moments of despair or depression is to look around, to reconsider their desires and find the "meaning of life".When the loom worthy causes that affect each string of the soul, are the strength to overcome any obstacles.Even those that exposes his own subconscious.

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