Relationship // He and she

A man creates a woman

you convinced that there is no decent men , so only some of their poor excuse?They treat you not as you want it to behave properly, that sometimes it seems that it is better to live in splendid isolation, than with such men?Although among your environment has «real" men , but you have them, why does not develop, and if formed, it is still not the most favorable.Maybe it is not in men, and in your own behavior?Did you ever think that a man varies depending on the woman , which is next to it (the one he will behave well, and with the next woman quite differently)?Let's see what mistakes often make women in a relationship, because of what their men behave accordingly:

1. As long as you think that all men are selfish, then you do not get even the most perfect man .Changed his outlook, do not treat men as enemies , they are people with their strengths and weaknesses, sometimes you just need to take them for what they are.

2. All men love freedom and appreciate, even when in a relationship they leave sp

ace for your own time and interests. And if they are constantly monitored, it will look like persistence, and indeed you will become for him a source of irritation.Men flee from women, alongside whom they feel "under the thumb", so if he's going to have a beer with your friends, do not hold it fit, rather spend the time usefully.And the constant pastime with tires, sometimes it is necessary to arrange a vacation from each other.

3 .The relationship must always be present trust, and from thy men you should not have secrets. Certainly at the beginning of your relationship was once again a joy to talk to him, to share their successes and challenges.But over time, many couples lose emotional contact, and easier for you to talk heart to heart with his colleague than with her own husband.This is wrong, your choice will always feel it as psychological discomfort, and he himself lost all desire to share something with you.It's kind of cheating, too, when you share important things is not their loved one, but with people who, in principle, these things are not meant.

4. Apologize - this is not a humiliation and not a sign of weakness, but rather it shows the wisdom and that you value the relationship. Trust - Men need to know that you also invest in the development of relations, so if you're wrong, admit it.

What if the man next to you does not want to commit serious acts against you?How to make your man was attentive and responsible?

main mistake women

How to become a woman, for which man wants to make a serious decision?How to find a number of reliable and caring life partner?Women make a major mistake when they begin to carefully hide their femininity, and some of them do not know what kind of quality. man wants to feel the leader in the relationship , namely, to show initiative and solve all the difficult questions, and when a woman has taken on their shoulders all the problems man is constantly proving that it can do without it, it is next to it can not manifesthis masculinity.Thus, the woman argues that takes full responsibility for the development of their relations, both male and female roles in a couple of changes.You can argue, but what can we do?Yes, women have long been can provide for themselves and at the same time they need to keep an eye on the children, the household and still be cute and sexy.Because of the many challenges that lie on it, the woman can turn into a disgusting aunt grumbling character, which refers to the hatred of men and consider them inferior.And when a woman to burden all by herself, she has become with her husband on equal terms, and he has no desire to conquer it.At this point, the woman thinks that she does not do so, why her husband was not looking at her as before, and just recall their femininity .

What it means to be feminine?

In no case do not try to take the initiative, even if a man thinks about it.A woman when meeting, fearing that the man disappears, she takes his phone number starts ringing and makes an appointment.Or in respect of a woman in love is ready to do everything for the sake of a loved one - to solve its problems, to find a place to meet, or even help with the work.What's next then?And then a woman and will pull all by yourself, and the man turns into an irresponsible teenager. woman should make her choice to help her, or wanted to be patient while he did not think about.And if she herself will do all the work around the house, repairing the plumbing, carry heavy bags, the man decides that he told her do not really need.The real woman would not allow the man next to her to turn into a whiner, listen to his problems or to keep it, but she had the right to demand the care, attention and financial support.The task of women to be a leader, and to treat and care attentions from men for granted.The question arises, what should give a woman?Woman giving man kindness, love and affection, admiration, it must be for his chosen muse and let him feel close to her "master" in the good sense of the word, because it is the responsibility of your pair.Try once again not to go to him with advice.Nature has formed man defense, and he knows better than you how to solve difficult problems, and the nature of a woman endowed with beauty and femininity, in this your strength and charm.For centuries man was in a pair of pivot support for a woman, and a woman support and send it to the .When close to the man's companion, able at the right time to show his weakness, he has come to force the implementation of its own, he just wants to move mountains to such a woman to show her his masculine worth.And if a woman to burden all by herself, then at the man lost any desire to do something for her.

And finally, do not criticize or scold a man for nothing, and if you see what he did, even some little thing, do not be lazy to praise and thank him, then he will make twice more.Do not be shy to ask for gifts, and learn to accept compliments that makes you a man, and never scolded herself with it, so you fall in his eyes.And your main task - to be weak and feminine, while men and will be attracted to you brave and strong.

Especially for LadySpecial - Natella