August
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Misunderstanding in relations


As you all well formed!Your relationship is definitely love.You are in complete harmony with each other, all over the help, share secrets.Each new day is not a bit like the previous.He is so caring, want to help you in everything, always there when sad, and they shall rejoice with pleasure will take part in your fun.It is a pity that all this is only a dream.In fact, in your relationship a lot of problems.

What is a crisis of misunderstanding in a relationship?

Once, however, not so long ago, you really everything was fine.In just a couple of your praying friends, enemies envious, and strangers around you could not help but smile when you walked with him arm on the city mall.What happened?Now, the old habit of replacing the burning feeling, you live side by side, Think every day, but you do not have among its former intimacy.Everything was ordinary and bored to death.In psychology this problem pairs called a "crisis of misunderstanding."Most often it occurs when long-term relationship.After all, our

feelings are gradually transformed.Sympathy turns into love, being in love with love.Where there is love as a bright and passionate sense of self becomes obsolete, there is a habit.Habit - a terrible state, which does not allow us to freely choose.

actually very frightening and unpleasant to live with a man for whom there is no feeling, but a habit.However, the crisis is not always associated with this.Love does not necessarily fade.Maybe you're just a little tired of each other, from the fact that standing together.It's not terrible, but it is unpleasant.Another reason may be continuously repeated events in which there is diversity.Every day you have going the same.As you can see many of the causes of the crisis "are treated."However, it is quite simple and does not require you to fortitude and endurance.

How to deal with a lack of understanding in a relationship?

It is recognized that women tend to hurry in a relationship.Especially the code it comes to weddings or cohabitation.If you do not want a misunderstanding, do not press on your man.Such conversations irritate men, put them in a dead end.It is often more a man also wants to live with you together to enjoy and experience, but is simply not ready for this.As a result, when you are constantly reminded of what he can not do, a man begins to lose his temper, and only move away from you further and further away.Think maybe should "loosen his grip" and everything will become as before.

Often we do not consider that the man - a great kids.We do not like when a loved one goes to play football with fellow students prefer to meet you (though the latter was a few hours ago) war games with a childhood friend, prefers to drink a beer in a cafe with a friend, and not go with you to buy some asparagus.If you do not want a misunderstanding, do not limit his freedom.Of course, it is not necessary to bring to the absurd, and fun to see him with another girl, but at least in some small things and trifles not worth its limit.Well if you need to meet on the day when the scheduled football, just arrange, how much will be the most convenient cross him and you.Or try to be asked to him on the football to see how it plays.

For every normal man his family - is sacred.Whatever the father, mother, brothers and sisters, he loves them.Therefore, if you do not want a misunderstanding, do not blame the members of his family.He can as much as necessary to complain about them, tell me that they are tired of it, and so on.Your stance should be credibility.Try to maintain a chosen common phrases that would be difficult to "stick" to the conviction of the above named persons.Well, if you find a way to distract him from his dark thoughts.If the relationship with the family he formed just fine, but someone you do not like, do not talk about it urgently.You are not forced to deal with unpleasant to you man.Be smarter, restrain yourself.

relationship - is never easy.Each person is different, and in the relationship have to adjust a little bit for someone else.Remember that your partner should appreciate what you do for him, otherwise it is not necessary start a relationship with him, and even more so to adjust.

how to overcome misunderstandings in the family read the article misunderstanding between the couple: how to overcome ?.Good luck!

Especially for L adySpecial. ru - Marie Matveyuk

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