Neither more nor less, and it is a joy must strive, because it begins with the path to happiness .How often do our dreams come true and even small desires?And if the answer is "no, not all," then another question arises why some desires are fulfilled, some - have never, in principle, can not be executed, and others - can be ever more fulfilled?
answer to this question may be somewhat :
- Dream originally unreal.
- To realize the desire you need a lot of time.
- Lack of opportunities, which is no longer active, but in the near future there will be, and then ...
Let's try to consider another answer - it's not that grants wishes or not, but in the wrong attitude to the way we dofulfill their dreams .In general often do we give the chance to our desire to realize?
For example, there was a desire to go with the best friends in the club, and is sure to put new leather dress.But, horror of horrors, sold by lightning and will have to opt for the old jeans.It would seem a
because you - a healthy person with arms and legs, sight, hearing, etc., And should appreciate it.Often we see difficulty in banal situations and do not notice the true values .We see the problem, but in fact we can see the possibility .Here's an example with a leather dress - the situation can be viewed differently.If you put good old jeans, which last week had a memorable evening, so at least you will be user-friendly, and who knows, maybe you are waiting for an even more stunning night?
How to change the attitude to the events of life?
There are a few tips.
1. Release situation, saying, "This too shall pass, and this happened, but it was also" eventually relax a little.
2. step back and observe the situation : how she develops, do not bother if you move it to where it most, that is, the situation will want to, and not where you suddenly wanted this moment.
3. As a rule, such an approach leads to the fact that the situation ends is the best and even more favorable results than you yourself had planned.The word "situation" refers to the different circumstances: the situation in his personal life and at work, as a whole, the mood, as well as relationships with people.
4. Solve think positively and always adhere to in all conditions and circumstances, the principle of « Everything that is done, all the better ».To the best of the soul as a minimum.After all, in fact we can not know what is good for us that the good, so it is better to entrust the life of the world , because he knows best.Despondent strictly prohibited.Relive course you can, but only a very little - 10 seconds, this is more than enough.
5. live in trembling expectation of a miracle at least 5 minutes a day, because the checked - miracles happen.Let's not often, but it's definitely happening sooner or later, with the most unexpected way.This rule is necessary to accomplish, like brushing your teeth or something like that.And it turns out in a strange way - physical health we care since infancy, forget about the soul.So we get what we deserved.
Do not forget to say "thank you" ...
Another important rule positive attitude to life - when all goes well, you should be able to test for this thanks .Very often, if not to say the situation is developing in such a scenario.We want something for a long time working on the implementation of the planned, and as a result is a very "plans" get or not.If you have reached the desired, a bit of everything as it is necessary, and if something does not work, start to blame yourself, life, or something worse than looking for someone to blame.A with "good" must be handled delicately, like a very fragile and expensive value. not forget to say thank you, be thankful for what we have.
Sometimes it happens that all of a sudden, all of a sudden begins to drive crazy, and the person begins to take it for granted, and then suddenly a very small amount of time it loses everything.Again two possible scenarios .
- indignation, resentment against everything and everyone, and as a result a person becomes at least not better.About joy at this moment people are not thinking.
- second option involves original joyful attitude to events .In the end, "everything that does not kill me only makes it stronger," and who does not want to become stronger, experienced, wise?As one of the great said: "It is not every victory is a victory, every defeat is not defeat."Not for nothing have folk wisdom "Everything that is done - all the better" or "From each beastliness can cut a piece of ham."Apparently our ancestors have long pointed out that it is important to not change the situation, but the attitude of the .That is, we must be satisfied that it happened that way, and not otherwise, because maybe it was the only way to understand something that had not previously understood.
Thank always necessary, especially for the failures.We still do not forget: thanks and sincere gratitude to the experience - are two different things.
path to joy
There are situations that teach the following relationship.It is only now bad that did not work out as you planned. failure - it's really positive way, the opportunity to see all the diverse array of roads to the delight of one of the options for achieving goals and making dreams come true .In general, how do we know, won or lost in terms of the future of tomorrow?Maybe tomorrow you will wake up and say, as well, that all this happened to me this way and not another?Who knows, maybe one day, when the man of her dreams on the question: "And why is the day you decide to go just at the club?", You answer, "Yes, just this stupid zipper on a leather dress sold out."
Sometimes, perhaps, you should not "start a new life", it is important and necessary for their own joy to look at the old with new eyes.Happy eyes!And life is like a mirror, reflect your new joyful and happy reality.After all, they say the same as our thoughts are material.