Relationship // He and she

Happy couple - Alexander and Svetlana

In the family atmosphere of true love, built on mutual respect and trust.Sasha and Sveta sure carefully referring to each other, they will be able to live together for a hundred years.A happy marriage strengthens their favorite sonny Little Johnny!

Tell us where and how did you meet?

Svetlana : We met at a mutual friend's birthday party.Coincidentally, I am, and he did not want to go there.I had a lot to do, I do not have time, the mood was not ... But we both came.At first I exchanged smiles with another guy, but as soon as I decided to go to the balcony to get some fresh air, Alexander followed me.We talked, found out that it is not the first time find ourselves on the same event, and in general, we have a lot of friends in common.By the middle of the conversation we have genuinely perplexed as to why we have not seen each other before!When you have finished talking, we did not return to the guests and birthday, and went for a walk ... Thanks to the very birthday of our meeting, we express t


How long have you been together?(Dating from the day, as occurred before the wedding or conscientious residence)

Svetlana : Together we are 4 years before the wedding, met 10 months.

how to understand what you want to be together?Why did you choose this particular man?

Svetlana : Just on the second day of our acquaintance and I and Sasha had a feeling that we have known each other.We said goodbye a long time, after a walk, do not want to let go of each other.It was then realized that we wanted to be together.Today, we understand that this fate has prepared us to meet!And I chose him because I saw in him a serious man, kind, ready-to-family relationships and very decent.After a couple of months of our relationship I was sure that this man is the father of my detey.14 February 2009, he said that only sees me his wife and he only wants to take me from the hospital!This was the key point.

quarreled Have you ever, and there came to the parting?

Svetlana : Not all, of course, is smooth, there are quarrels.The most difficult was the first year of our marriage, we quarreled very often.At that time I was pregnant, I wanted more attention, while the husband was at work the rubble.He later returned home, I was the end it led to the fact that after giving birth, I went with the child to his parents, and my husband and I saw only on weekends - he came to visit us.While we were on the verge of divorce.But after a month of our separation, I started to receive SMS from Sasha, which said that it would be hard without me and synuli.However, we are not in a hurry to return back.I guess I could not forgive the misunderstanding in such an important moment in the life of every woman, as pregnancy, and he, in turn, feared a repetition of the scandals.So we spent three months, and finally realized that we love, that neither I nor he was not ready to let go of each other.

Do you have some special secret of reconciliation?

Svetlana : That quarrel taught us a lot: trust and understanding, and even that is not necessary to wait for the first step of a loved one, if you love and you care about your relationship, you have the most (or yourself) to meet.This is the secret of our reconciliation, and now more than 5 minutes we do not hurt each other, one of us is required to try to iron out everything.The main thing is to realize that in their own words, spoken in a quarrel, anger can greatly hurt a loved one, and try to avoid it.

as the appearance of her son affected your relationships?This event strengthened or vice versa, your family disorder?

Svetlana : The child appeared in our first year of marriage, and of course, the time for the two of us became much smaller.But we have learned to appreciate it, and now when a child coddle our parents, we arrange each other dating, go to the movies, but sometimes it turns out to nightclubs and walk.With the son, we have become much closer, this is our little angel with him, we feel a real family!

Have you had a hard time in life and how you overcame them together?

Svetlana : With all the obstacles easier to overcome.My wife and I never hide anything from each other, and he and I know that the support of a loved one is important.It helps in my business, and I am his chief assistant.We do not have separation of affairs in the "mine-yours", we try to do everything together.The most difficult time for us when our son is sick, for me it is important that these experiences sleepless nights my husband spends with me, but not as many husbands, slept in another room.

This allows you to save the relationship so far?

Svetlana : So far, our relations are good thanks to mutual understanding, respect and trust.

Was there jealousy in a relationship, and if so, how do you cope with it?

Svetlana : Thanks to the confidence we have less jealous of each other than other couples.And all my personal advice: talk to your loved ones more often how much you love them, and they will not be jealous, will know that your heart is occupied only by them.

Was there a passion?And whether it is still in your relationship?

Svetlana : Passion and to this day has a place in our relations.I am convinced that the main thing here - do not forget to surprise each other.

What is your love?

Svetlana : Love for my husband - this is when you can call the person and best friend and lover!

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