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Five Love Languages

Everyone tends to feel comfortable with your partner and wants the partner was also good with it. Family - one of the most important in life and can only be happy for someone who has found happiness in marriage.But unfortunately can not be said of all: the divorce rate is growing every year, and people after a few years of living together transform their relationship into a permanent clarification of relations and mutual resentment.Why is this happening, maybe we simply cease to hear each other?

In fact, we are all very different and approach to each person needs special.Admit it, you're expecting from a partner special displays of affection and love of evidence, such as important to you, what would your man gave you flowers and gifts, spoke several times a day compliments, so you feel happy woman he loved.In the same way you are to measure our love for him, you constantly tell him that he is the favorite and the perfect man, trying to please his gifts with or without.But you did not think that it i

s possible for your partner is important at all other aspects of love, for example, he wants to spend leisure time with you and tries to give you as much free time.You do not understand and continue to work to tell him compliments.To these omissions did not happen, you need to know five basic love languages ​​.

Language praise

This language belongs any words that bring positive emotions, no matter it is a compliment about appearance, thanks for a done deal and admired some quality .Remember the last time you praised your favorite, not for anything, but just because you have it the most-most.If your partner is a leading aspect of praise love, every criticism and reproach you kill his love to her.Even constructive criticism must be submitted in the form of praise, for example, do you want my husband went with you to the event, but you can see that it does not really set up for it.To begin with, it is decorated with any occasion, it supports themes and brilliantly jokes, and then gradually move to the topic of the event.

Praise can be inspiring, such as your husband, there are clear capacity to program, evaluate its quality and ideally work and he wants to go further and achieve more.

Language gifts and surprises

Yes, there are men for whom it is important that their girl loved to make gifts.For such a person important thing to touch, hold in your hand and see tangible proof of love your partner. Optionally it must be expensive gifts, and they can be made with your own hands, it is important that favorite saw that you always think of him and cared for.Another type of gifts - a gift itself.Your partner is very important to feel the support of his companions in a difficult moment.

Nasty guy somehow got into a car accident and was in hospital with a broken leg, he had to lie in a hospital bed for several weeks.Not very happy prerogative of boredom and loneliness can howl.But every evening Nastya hurried to the beloved, cared for him, even missed her best friend's birthday, to spend the evening with him.Man moved by such attention, and he now considers it the best girl in the world and is madly in love.

Language time

Katya came home every day after work and spent the whole evening behind the stove, preparing a delicious dinner to her husband, but his mood did not improve.He always went sullen and increasingly divorced from his wife, and all because it is not important were these dinners, and in the evening he would talk to his wife to express her thoughts and feelings. partners who lead the language of love - is the language of the time, wants a full break away with your partner, talking heart to heart .Lead-time language is more common in women, which is why they complain about the men that they do not pay attention to them when they are completely immersed in the work and have no free time.Look closely at your partner, maybe he's waiting on you is such an expression of feelings!

Language touches

The point here is not about sex, it is certainly important for any man.Touch - a light stroking, hugging, kissing. Physical contact has a huge role in the life of any person , just someone he needed at least someone more.When we were little, then got physical contact from her mother - she wore on our hands, kiss on the forehead before going to bed, and now we want such displays of affection from a partner.A man who likes to touch identify simple - he will always strive to keep your hand, gently clean your hair and stroking the knee, so that you do not skimp prove his love touches.

Language Service

When your chosen pet shirt asks, wash socks or do any other service for him, you wonder: "Am I his housewife engaging, he can not go and do this?".It's not that he finds fault with you, and just wants to you make it nice and expressed their feelings .But many women do not realize this and think that their relationship erodes Life - did not do it, do not do it, and when they start to tell him praise, it is to emphasize it does not hear.Just for your main man in love - the language services, and the need to listen to the requests of a loved one and to try to fulfill them, then the differences in the relationship will be.

Usually a person is leading a language of love, but there may be two, then simply: There are several ways to express your love!How to determine the leading language?Usually a partner is doing what he wanted to get back .The language of love is laid in childhood, and it is usually grafted parents, and of course much depends on the temperament and characteristics of the psyche.To determine not only the language of love partner, but also your own, you can understand why we hurt some things loved and convey to them what we are waiting for the expression of love.

Especially for - Natella

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